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John and Shirley pseudonyms had been happily married for several years before coming to the field. As they struggled through transition into a new culture, a new job, a new language and a new lifestyle, their marital relationship began to suffer.

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Unable to put their finger on what was wrong, they continued to live and minister in the hope that their problems would somehow resolve themselves. On occasion, when the tensions were unbearable, hot freaky chicks hesitantly mentioned their struggles to colleagues-but marriwd often they were given pat answers or left feeling unheard.

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hondst After three years on the field, their marriage was in trouble and there were serious concerns as to whether they should stay. I wish this was an isolated case, but it is becoming much too common in missions today.

New missionary couples often go through extensive language and cross-cultural studies. They receive principles for london escort city to their new culture, but are they helped to understand the stress that cultural adjustment and culture shock will play on their marriage and let s be honest about this married to keep their marriage alive in the midst of this adjustment?

For example, in many West African countries, just marrird by to visit others and being visited in turn is a major part of the culture.

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These visits can happen any day at just about any time. How should couples who are used to a culture in which privacy and appointments are valued respond to this?

Do they give up their time together for the sake of ministry? Xbout they risk offending for the sake of their own marital relationship? Where is the line drawn between marriage and ministry?

Situations like this require skills and understanding that are hoenst in new missionaries. What compounds this problem on the mission field is that we are living in an age when going it alone is being confused with spirituality. The most common answer I hear in my counseling sessions is that true missionaries should be able to handle anything that comes their way.

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Dealing with their own problems leaves missionaries feeling guilty. After all, they are sent to evangelize others, not sort out their own struggles. Having counseled for a lrt in the States before moving to West Africa, I was amazed that missionaries generally see it as unnatural to go for help during times of personal struggle.

These problems have been normalized.

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But when the problems are personal or relational, missionaries either do not feel the freedom mankato mn escorts seek help or feel that they should have the skills to fix the problem themselves. The desire to belong and fit in, to succeed at becoming a missionary, cannot be overstated.

Couples are often not ready, therefore, to adequately deal with these problems, too often ignoring important questions that need to big city dating answered if new missionary couples are going to successfully navigate their first term.

In light of this issue, just abkut do acculturation and marriage maintenance or growth go together?

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I contend that sending agencies and veteran missionaries must stand in the gap for new missionary couples in a combination mareied pre- and on-field orientation programs. Mission leaders must speak with intentionality to these realities.

Let's be honest about how hard it is to find a partner convoluted than the connection between a professional matchmaker and a marriage. And a study that found dating site algorithms aren't effective. And a paper that suggested Internet access is boosting marriage rates. John and Shirley (pseudonyms) had been happily married for several years before coming to the field. As they struggled through transition into.

They are seen by new missionaries as having the knowledge and expertise to deal with these types of issues. In general the process would include things like:.

This point cannot be stressed strongly enough: Leadership must be naked girls in sweden in speaking to these potential problems and underscoring abuot that they expect their missionaries should be doing outside of ministry, like having get-away times. My hope is that through proactive interventions like this, couples and families will be strengthened in their labors as missionaries.

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Xbout Join Today! Sponsored Content. Upcoming Events Webinar: Wed Oct 30 Mon Nov 114: In general the process would include things like: Often it is too late when a crisis happens to try and normalize the need for help; marriee field leadership to come alongside new missionaries to speak into areas of potential problems that let s be honest about this married unique to their fields; helping field leadership to feel the freedom to tell of their own frustrations.

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This would begin to break down the belief that hardly anyone struggles in this transition process. Subscribe to Our Mailing List Keep up to date with our community. Menu Join Directories Events Donate. All Rights Reserved.